what should i do?

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

i rilly rilly rilly want to go to AC but im afraid how my mom will recive my furry side what should i do?(sory if this is in the rong part of the forums)

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Giza's picture
"100% usynlig - som en ninja!"

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We cover this in the FAQ, but I'll reproduce it here for your benefit:

My parents don't understand what Furries are (or have gotten a bad impression). How can I explain it to them?

There are two links on the left side of this page that can help. The first is "What is Furry", and the second is "About Anthrocon". Show these to your parents. A lot of young folks take the wrong tactic when trying to explain Furry Fandom to their parents, in that they spend so much time concentrating on what our fandom is not that they wind up giving a very bad impression. Tell them instead what it is. If you have any questions, you can contact us -- or better still, have your parents email us. We'd be happy to explain to them what we are all about.

Also, why not ask your mom to come along to the convention? The Chairman's parents attend every year, and mine are attending this year. Let her see first-hand what the con is about; she'll probably have a good time. We are also working on a "so, your kid dragged you to this convention" type of panel for the parents.

 
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Alondro's picture
"Lions are lazy, very lazy. However, never tell one that to its face, lest you be sliced like bacon."

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You can also tell them that some of the attendees are brilliant super-genius Master's Degree-carrying biologists... like myself for instance! :3

And that your online monikor stands for Bone Morphogenetic Protein 1-12, which would be the BMP1 metalloproteinase with perhaps an unspecified polymorphism at amino acid residue #12, which is normally a glycine. Or the '12' could refer to the fact that BMP1 is a member of the peptidase M12A protein subfamily, which are peptidases unassigned to any specific class, one other of these being a component of snake venom. They'll be impressed. ;3

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"Little dragon. Big mouth."

Location: Philadelphia area, PA

Agreed. She may not want to spend the whole day at the gather, but part of a gather is better than no gather at all, right?

For further stuff to share with your mom, you could also do a little digging and pull up folks' photos from last year--most end up looking a little like a less commercialized, low-key disneyland. You could even cherry-pick a few conversations from this message board, so she could see what sorts of stuff we talk about and how we talk to each other.

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"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

thanks guys il se what i can do i would tell her that my screen name ment that if she dident know it was my innitals oh and by the way you sound smart maby we can duscuss science some time alondro...

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"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"

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There should be no reason for your mom to love you any less just because you are furry.

Dont be afraid.
And Like the others say....Take her along with you. The fandom is for everyone to enjoy.

When I told my mother she understood that it was my choice and supported me for it
(Kinda like how I joined the military)
Heck SHE even wanted to go to the convention and see whats up

And I will go with the other guys as well.Let her read the facts and various posts for better understanding

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

i asked her if i could go to the con and she said shed have to find out info before she says yes or no but did not tell her im furry but if any of you want to talk to her let me know

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"Never meddle in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup."

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If you so desire, I've talked to a few "newbie furs" parents on their behalf to ease their folks into it.

If you want her to email me or something, please don't hesitate Laughing out loud I know a few good sites to send her to for research. If you want it, PM me for my email, as I'm not often on YIM or anything...

desteredra's picture
"Little dragon. Big mouth."

Location: Philadelphia area, PA

Actually, now i think of it, why not invite her to come talk to us here?

The board's pretty darn clean, she'd be talking to some of the same folks you'd be meeting at gather, and there are a lot of folks around, like giza and kage and sgt. steve, who are founts of useful information and good PR. IIRC, the last time a furry parent turn up on the board, we seemed to to a pretty good job of making that guy feel welcome and at ease.

Just a thought.

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"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"

Location: Deleware

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I would be happy to talk to em for you
You have my support
But know that I can only give em a nudge...YOU are the one to push em all the way.

Vegacaptain@yahoo.com

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Hey Vega!

Just a warning here, your email address is now promenently displayed for the use of bots who sniff around the internet; especially bulletin boards, zeroing in on "@" and adding it to SPAM lists. I recommend you edit that and put it some other way like:

Vegacaptain(AT)yahoo.com
Vegacaptain(amphersand)yahoo.com

Although some bots are programmed to grab those too. Most people will figure it out with no problem Laughing out loud

Jovina

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

yea i might bring her in here so you guys can talk to her thats not a bad idea.

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

well i convinced my mom to go to ac Dance she is even looking foward to it Jawdropping! we just gotta raise the money and figure out the details so hopefuly we can do all that before the con comes around!

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*high fives*

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Kudos to your mom! She'll be in company of numerous other parents who are getting dragged to the con. Eye-wink

 
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Good luck with the details! Be sure to introduce me to her. I'll be the old guy in the lab coat.

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

my mom wants to know what time of the day dose the con start any help?

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bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

thank you

VegaGuy's picture
"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"

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Good job dude!!
I knew you could do it!!

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

i cant wait to meet all you guys! ive been actuly getting naousioius with antisipation.

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"Boy Meets World? How about Wolf Meets Den...and then Eats Boy."

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I plan on meeting everyone on my buddy list, and then some. (So I guess I plan on meeting you too. XD)

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

YAY! cant wait to meet you!

Gravitycrasher's picture
"Boy Meets World? How about Wolf Meets Den...and then Eats Boy."

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Ooh! Idea! Add me to your buddy list!

bmp112's picture
"i am a furry, a trekie,and an otakou what more can i be?"

Location: ne ohio

OK DONE!

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"Vitani is my name. Catch me, if you can!"

Location: Manahawkin, NJ

i just caught up on this post. thats great that she's excited to come! i'm happy to hear that she's open to it! ^.^

-Vitani

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