what should i do?

Welcome furry fans!

We're glad you stopped by. Go ahead and register for a free account to get the benefits of being a member, including:
  • Access to all of our posts and comments
  • Your own profile including an avatar, buddy lists, and other social networking features
  • The ability to participate in a community of over 8,000 furry fans!
Creating an account is easy. Register now!
25 replies [Last post]
bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

i rilly rilly rilly want to go to AC but im afraid how my mom will recive my furry side what should i do?(sory if this is in the rong part of the forums)

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

Comment viewing options

Select your preferred way to display the comments and click "Save settings" to activate your changes.
Giza's picture
This user is a Board MemberThis user is a Staff Member
Location: Ardmore, PA
"Webmaster Leopard"
Posts: 2754
Votes Received:
4.6
1690 votes received
Buddy List

We cover this in the FAQ, but I'll reproduce it here for your benefit:

My parents don't understand what Furries are (or have gotten a bad impression). How can I explain it to them?

There are two links on the left side of this page that can help. The first is "What is Furry", and the second is "About Anthrocon". Show these to your parents. A lot of young folks take the wrong tactic when trying to explain Furry Fandom to their parents, in that they spend so much time concentrating on what our fandom is not that they wind up giving a very bad impression. Tell them instead what it is. If you have any questions, you can contact us -- or better still, have your parents email us. We'd be happy to explain to them what we are all about.

Also, why not ask your mom to come along to the convention? The Chairman's parents attend every year, and mine are attending this year. Let her see first-hand what the con is about; she'll probably have a good time. We are also working on a "so, your kid dragged you to this convention" type of panel for the parents.

 
--
My LiveJournal - My Website - See what I'm doing on Twitter

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

Pennsylvania Furry? Be sure to check out http://www.pa-furry.org/

Alondro's picture
Location: NJ
"Lions are lazy, very lazy. However, never tell one that to its face, lest you be sliced like bacon."
Posts: 914
Votes Received:
2.5
389 votes received
Buddy List

You can also tell them that some of the attendees are brilliant super-genius Master's Degree-carrying biologists... like myself for instance! :3

And that your online monikor stands for Bone Morphogenetic Protein 1-12, which would be the BMP1 metalloproteinase with perhaps an unspecified polymorphism at amino acid residue #12, which is normally a glycine. Or the '12' could refer to the fact that BMP1 is a member of the peptidase M12A protein subfamily, which are peptidases unassigned to any specific class, one other of these being a component of snake venom. They'll be impressed. ;3

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
desteredra's picture
This user is a Staff Member
Location: Philadelphia area, PA
"Little dragon. Big mouth."
Posts: 1284
Votes Received:
4.7
71 votes received
Buddy List

Agreed. She may not want to spend the whole day at the gather, but part of a gather is better than no gather at all, right?

For further stuff to share with your mom, you could also do a little digging and pull up folks' photos from last year--most end up looking a little like a less commercialized, low-key disneyland. You could even cherry-pick a few conversations from this message board, so she could see what sorts of stuff we talk about and how we talk to each other.

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

thanks guys il se what i can do i would tell her that my screen name ment that if she dident know it was my innitals oh and by the way you sound smart maby we can duscuss science some time alondro...

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

VegaGuy's picture
Location: Deleware
"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4
5 votes received
Buddy List

There should be no reason for your mom to love you any less just because you are furry.

Dont be afraid.
And Like the others say....Take her along with you. The fandom is for everyone to enjoy.

When I told my mother she understood that it was my choice and supported me for it
(Kinda like how I joined the military)
Heck SHE even wanted to go to the convention and see whats up

And I will go with the other guys as well.Let her read the facts and various posts for better understanding

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

~V~

bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

i asked her if i could go to the con and she said shed have to find out info before she says yes or no but did not tell her im furry but if any of you want to talk to her let me know

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

GreyFoxFanatic's picture
Location: Kansas, USA
"Wednesday Addams is my Inner Child."
Posts: 195
Votes Received:
3.5
8 votes received
Buddy List

If you so desire, I've talked to a few "newbie furs" parents on their behalf to ease their folks into it.

If you want her to email me or something, please don't hesitate Laughing out loud I know a few good sites to send her to for research. If you want it, PM me for my email, as I'm not often on YIM or anything...

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

Adopt one today!

desteredra's picture
This user is a Staff Member
Location: Philadelphia area, PA
"Little dragon. Big mouth."
Posts: 1284
Votes Received:
4.7
71 votes received
Buddy List

Actually, now i think of it, why not invite her to come talk to us here?

The board's pretty darn clean, she'd be talking to some of the same folks you'd be meeting at gather, and there are a lot of folks around, like giza and kage and sgt. steve, who are founts of useful information and good PR. IIRC, the last time a furry parent turn up on the board, we seemed to to a pretty good job of making that guy feel welcome and at ease.

Just a thought.

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
VegaGuy's picture
Location: Deleware
"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4
5 votes received
Buddy List

I would be happy to talk to em for you
You have my support
But know that I can only give em a nudge...YOU are the one to push em all the way.

Vegacaptain@yahoo.com

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

~V~

jovina's picture
Location: Maryland, USA
Posts: 107
Votes Received:
3.6
8 votes received
Buddy List

Hey Vega!

Just a warning here, your email address is now promenently displayed for the use of bots who sniff around the internet; especially bulletin boards, zeroing in on "@" and adding it to SPAM lists. I recommend you edit that and put it some other way like:

Vegacaptain(AT)yahoo.com
Vegacaptain(amphersand)yahoo.com

Although some bots are programmed to grab those too. Most people will figure it out with no problem Laughing out loud

Jovina

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

yea i might bring her in here so you guys can talk to her thats not a bad idea.

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

well i convinced my mom to go to ac Dance she is even looking foward to it Jawdropping! we just gotta raise the money and figure out the details so hopefuly we can do all that before the con comes around!

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

Kaarlo the roadie's picture
"Arctic fox kinda thingamajigger with a punk rock twist"
Posts: 70
Votes Received:
0
0 votes received
Buddy List

*high fives*

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
Giza's picture
This user is a Board MemberThis user is a Staff Member
Location: Ardmore, PA
"Webmaster Leopard"
Posts: 2754
Votes Received:
4.6
1690 votes received
Buddy List

Kudos to your mom! She'll be in company of numerous other parents who are getting dragged to the con. Eye-wink

 
--
My LiveJournal - My Website - See what I'm doing on Twitter

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

Pennsylvania Furry? Be sure to check out http://www.pa-furry.org/

Unclekage's picture
This user is a Board MemberThis user is a Staff Member
Posts: 3419
Votes Received:
4.7
2452 votes received
Buddy List

Good luck with the details! Be sure to introduce me to her. I'll be the old guy in the lab coat.

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

my mom wants to know what time of the day dose the con start any help?

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

Volknochi's picture
Posts: 403
Votes Received:
4.8
4 votes received
Buddy List

Psssst!

http://www.anthrocon.org/node/1903

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None
bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

thank you

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

VegaGuy's picture
Location: Deleware
"In the military,Good chance Im going this year"
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4
5 votes received
Buddy List

Good job dude!!
I knew you could do it!!

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

~V~

bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

i cant wait to meet all you guys! ive been actuly getting naousioius with antisipation.

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

Gravitycrasher's picture
Location: Newell, WV, USA
"In my personal opinion, you my friend, spend too much time reading comments."
Posts: 110
Votes Received:
0
0 votes received
Buddy List

I plan on meeting everyone on my buddy list, and then some. (So I guess I plan on meeting you too. XD)

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

---
月のカース冷夢のなかで

bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

YAY! cant wait to meet you!

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

Gravitycrasher's picture
Location: Newell, WV, USA
"In my personal opinion, you my friend, spend too much time reading comments."
Posts: 110
Votes Received:
0
0 votes received
Buddy List

Ooh! Idea! Add me to your buddy list!

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

---
月のカース冷夢のなかで

bmp112's picture
Location: corry pa
"i am the image fox."
Posts: 214
Votes Received:
4.8
8 votes received
Buddy List

OK DONE!

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

im the image fox.

DJMeowMix's picture
Location: Jersey
"^^"
Posts: 133
Votes Received:
4
2 votes received
Buddy List

i just caught up on this post. thats great that she's excited to come! i'm happy to hear that she's open to it! ^.^

-Vitani

0
No votes yet
Your rating: None

Comment viewing options

Select your preferred way to display the comments and click "Save settings" to activate your changes.